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A few thoughts: first, I wonder if Damien is still not distinguishing between
day and night yet. Some people say newborns' internal clocks are "upside-down"
from the time they were in utero--some moms thought when they were pregnant
their baby was most active during the night when they were resting. So it takes
time for newborns to figure out it's the other way round--nights are for
sleeping, days are for activities. Second, when babies are in their moms'
bellies, there are lots of noises, such as her her heartbeat, bodily fluids and
functions. Many people believe babies are calmed by similar noises after they're
born and apparently things like the hair dryer and vacuum cleaner sound like the
noises in mommies' tummies, so I've heard parents turn these on to soothe their
babies. Some parents buy a white noise machine, which help some babies fall and
stay asleep. You may want to look into a white noise machine for Damien to see
if it works? Third, it's totally fine to play music before he sleeps at night
and it's actually a good thing if he becomes reliant on it to fall asleep!
Parents are supposed to figure out and establish a bedtime routine for their
babies when they get older, say 3 months, because as they become more alert,
they need cues to let them know it's bedtime. Many parents incorporate singing
lullabies or playing a lullaby CD for their babies as part of the bedtime
ritual. Other popular choices are reading a bedtime story, taking a bath,
nursing/bottle-feeding, and rocking/cuddling. One thing to note is I've read
that you shouldn't keep the music on after the baby falls asleep because it may
affect the quality of his sleep, but it doesn't sound like you were going to
keep the music on. ;) So long story short, I say go for the music before he
sleeps and try a white noise machine to see if that helps him sleep longer!
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