I went through that as well with my firstborn! Before he turned 6 months, I let
him sleep in my arms while nursing. In the first few months, he'd stay asleep
when I put him in his crib, but as he got older, he would cry as soon as he was
out of my arms.
So finally when he was almost 6 months old, I did two things: one was to create
a simple bedtime routine (nursing (or bottle-feeding), burping, reading books,
turning off the lights, lullabies before and after placing in crib); and two,
cry it out when the baby cried as I left the room. I didn't use the "extreme"
cry-it-out version where you don't check in at all, but the "moderate" version
where you check in every so often, depending on your comfort level (e.g, every 5
minutes, or 5 minutes as the first interval, then 10 minutes, then 15 minutes.)
The sleep training book I used was the Sleepeasy Solution, which also has great
sample schedules in the book and online:
http://www.sleepyplanet.com/schedule.html.
It only took a few nights for my baby to get it and he didn't even cry for that
long. The naps were much harder, but since he was sleeping very well through the
night, I figured it was a tradeoff--I was told a lot of times great nighttime
sleepers are not good nappers and vice versa.
There are a lot of different opinions on when you could start cry-it-out--some
say 4 months, some 5 months, some say as soon as the baby weighs 12 pounds, some
15 pounds. I went with an adjusted 5 months--my baby was a month premature, so I
waited till he was 6 months before I did cry-it-out with him.
The bedtime routine you could start anytime though, many say the earlier the
better. I think the big "tip" with the bedtime routine is at any point you see
that the baby's drowsy, cut the routine short and put him/her in the crib
immediately. If s/he fell asleep at your breast, wake him/her to keep nursing or
burp him/her, so s/he's awake but drowsy--the perfect time to put into the crib.
If the baby's wide awake, keep reading/rocking/singing until s/he's drowsy.
Hope this helps! I'm obsessed with my baby's sleep, so please let me know if you
have any more questions!
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